Empowering Your Inner “Sexplorer”

Helping people cultivate a fulfilling sex life that brings joy, confidence, and connection through hands-off sex coaching.

Your journey to sexual
freedom starts here

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Are you ready to step into a more fulfilling sex life? Let’s discover the possibilities together with Revel Sex Coaching. I'm Mark, your sex coach, and I'm here to help you embrace your sexuality, explore your desires, nurture fulfilling relationships, and create a life you love.

As a male sex coach in a predominantly female field, I bring a unique perspective and understanding of feminine energy. My coaching style is caring, patient, empathetic, thoughtful, and playful; creating a safe, hands-off, and educational experience for my clients.

I believe that sex should be fun, satisfying, and empowering, which is why it’s my personal mission to help individuals and couples enjoy more sexual freedom through exploration and education in a non-judgmental environment.

I believe that sexuality is a vital aspect of human connection and intimacy, playing a significant role in our overall well-being. With a holistic approach to sexuality, I work with clients all over the world and in my Illinois practice to explore their desires, values, beliefs, and challenges related to their sex life and sexuality.

Together, we'll uncover and overcome any barriers, misconceptions, or emotional blocks that may be hindering your sexual fulfillment. This is a truly life-changing journey of self-exploration, discovery, and “sexploration,” and I'm excited to guide you on this adventure with Revel Sex Coaching!

So, are you ready to embark on this exciting journey to sexual freedom? Let's get started!

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Enough about me,
let’s talk about you!

At Revel Sex Coaching, I work with individuals and couples who are open to exploring themselves and their relationships in a positive and solution-focused way. If you're ready to take ownership of your sexual well-being and are willing to actively participate in the coaching process, we're a great fit!

I work best with clients who are willing to look at themselves and their own patterns, rather than placing all the blame on their partner. So if you’re ready for some self-reflection and willing to take responsibility for your part in the dynamic, we can work together to create positive changes in your sex life and relationship(s).

Meet our sexperts

Let’s get to know each other a little better.

Mark Vaughan

Mark Vaughan

Sex Coach

As a proud Midwesterner who grew up in the suburbs of Chicago and later moved to sunny San Diego, CA, I decided to pursue my passion for helping others by going back to school. There, I earned my Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Bethel Seminary in 2013 and completed a dual-track certificate program in Sex Therapy and Sexuality Education from the University of Michigan in 2018.

My approach to sex coaching is rooted in evidence-based methodologies I have learned through my extensive education. But hey, don't worry, I won't be pulling out any white lab coats or clipboards - it's all about creating a safe, non-judgmental, and playful space for you to explore and express yourself with or without your partner(s).

I’m very much inspired by two quotes: One by Cliff Burton, the late bassist of Metallica, who said, "You don't get burnout by going too fast, you get it by going too slow and getting bored." I believe that putting intentional time and effort into our sexual lives is crucial to prevent boredom, discomfort, and anxiety in our relationships.

The second quote is, "Life isn't about discovering yourself, it's about creating yourself." I believe that we have the power to design our own lives and sexual experiences. And through Revel Sex Coaching, I aim to empower my clients to do just that by exploring and expressing their sexual selves fully, without shame or guilt.

When I'm not nerding out about sex and relationships, you might find me striking a yoga pose, practicing acro yoga with friends, chatting to Jake about new research on people’s sexual behaviors, or indulging in my love for craft beer!

Jake the cat


Chief Cuddle Officer

Meet the Feline Mastermind Behind Revel Sex Coaching - Jake!

As the Chief Cuddle Officer and Head of Napping Operations at Revel Sex Coaching, Jake brings his unmatched expertise in relaxation and contentment to our practice. With his uncanny ability to find the sunniest spot in the room and his talent for mood-lifting head bumps and playful tail swishes, Jake's presence adds joy and laughter to our every day.

While he may not be a certified sex coach (yet!), Jake's intuition, curiosity, and fearlessness in exploring new heights make him a natural adventurer and a beloved member of our team. He's also an expert in active listening, often purring in agreement during coaching sessions.

Are you ready to REVEL in your authentic sexual self?

Get in touch with me today to schedule a free 15-minute consultation and take the first step towards a more joyous, confident, and connected sex life.

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